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I had an ex-classmate ask me enthusiastically how I was doing at Davis. What's it like with the commute? Do I feel like it's "home"?

I've been thinking about that ever since. I've been angling to get a room up here, though I haven't really worked at it (my schedule for next quarter is an okay commute schedule, so there's no big rush). But really, do I want this to be "home" rather than "school"?

I haven't managed to answer that yet. All the reasons I've found for getting a place up here have been logistical; for that matter, all the counterarguments I've found have been logistical. It would be easier to schedule things if I could do classes more than three days a week. I'd be able to join more activities. I wouldn't spend what feels like half my life running for the train; I'd be able to sleep over here if I needed to.

It wouldn't save money -- it would cost more, actually. The rent even at the co-ops would come out to at least $900 for a quarter, and right now I'm paying around $700 for train tickets. I'd have to figure on still needing train tickets if I lived up here, so that I could go back to Concord and see my Weasel.

The vague feelings I have are that I'd feel more isolated up here, and I like to be able to put school aside and really relax at home. Homework seems neutral; I don't do as much when school feels far away, but it reduces my stress level when I don't live at school. So I dunno.

I have no strong feelings either way, which is why I haven't really been trying hard to get a room. I'll keep working on the question, though, as I should figure it out soon.

Date: 2006-11-17 22:22 (UTC)
From: [identity profile] foogod.livejournal.com
From my personal experience, no school can feel like "home" for at least the first three quarters or so of the first year. That's just how long it takes to get used to the new place and build up enough of a social base to no longer be an outsider.

Of course, from my experience, "home" doesn't really have that much to do with where I sleep anyway, but that may just be me.

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